Sorry it’s been a while since my last blog post! In case you were wondering, I did complete my second half marathon on Sunday 30th October at Knebworth House with my friend Brian. I ran the half marathon in 2 hours and 45 minutes, whilst Brian smashed his first attempt in 1 hour and 53 minutes! While I was hoping for a better result, the route was very challenging with lots of hills and inclines. The lovely views made up for it, and Brian and I both agreed we made the right decision to run at Knebworth House. It was an incredible feeling for us both running across the finish line and the atmosphere in general was fantastic. We also caught up with university friends and visited the University of Hertfordshire campus, which was very nostalgic indeed.
The main reason for not posting recently was due to buying and moving into a house! I made an offer on a house in Tamworth at the end of August, which was accepted. Three months later, I picked up the keys which happened to be on the same day as my work’s Christmas party. I won’t go into detail, but the process of buying my house was rather stressful and I had an issue with the house insurance just two days before I was due to pick up the keys. Luckily everything worked out ok and I was able to relax and celebrate with my colleagues at the Christmas party in Birmingham.
I’ve called this blog post ‘End of an Era; New Beginnings’ not just because it’s almost the end of 2022 and the start of a new year, but because I recently celebrated my 30th birthday. Honestly, I can’t believe where my twenties have gone. I really didn’t want to turn 30 but I’ve been ok so far, which I think is due to the fact I managed to buy a house on my own just before I turned 30 (especially with the current economic climate). I was well and truly spoilt by my family this year. My parents took me to Hambleton Hall in Rutland Water for a fine dining experience. The food was incredible and the chocolate artwork in the photo below was a nice touch.
The past few months have been rather busy, hence why I haven’t posted on my blog. Usually I write a self-reflective blog around the New Year. It was interesting to re-read my reflective blog posts for last year and for 2020. Both of these were heavily focused on the Covid-19 pandemic, as restrictions were imposed across the globe and impacted our daily lives. Last year’s post also focused on the importance of looking after your mental health, which I still aim to keep to this day.
This year has felt almost ‘normal’ again. It’s strange to think that we lived through all of the restrictions such as having to present negative lateral flow tests and/or show a Covid passport as proof of vaccination. What I have appreciated the most this year was being able to celebrate Christmas my family, as Covid restricted this in 2020 and 2021. It felt very special being with my family and reminded me of just how grateful I am for them, especially my parents who let me move back in with them in July and they helped me recently move into my new home.
The first half of 2022 saw a relentless focus on training for my second half marathon, which fizzled out during the summer. In July I broke up with my partner of 4 1/2 years. It was difficult to break up, but my ex and I both agreed it was the right thing to do. Moving back to my parents in Leicester and starting the process of house hunting/purchasing took up time and energy, and I found it difficult to anchor myself back to the focus I had at the start of 2022. Despite this, I managed to do some training in Leicester and it was nice to reminisce over my old running routes when I was training for my first half marathon. I’ve decided my focus for 2023 will be to run shorter distances in faster times. I’m still proud that I managed to complete 5km at the Lichfield parkrun in less than 30 minutes back in March; it would be nice to finish 5km in an even faster time, such as in less than 29 minutes.
While I will always continue to work on my fitness, I must remember to carry on being myself. I was so happy that I received the ‘Ray of Light’ award at the work’s Christmas party, which was for the most positive/caring employee. As well as receiving a certificate, I was given a pair of smiley face slippers (in the photo below). They are very comfy and I wear them in the office whilst at work (the office has a very homely feel).
The main takeaway for 2022 which I will take into 2023 is to continue looking after myself whilst continuing to be myself (if that makes sense!). I’ve been through a lot emotionally this year and perhaps I could have made more of an effort to look after myself. I will enjoy my thirties and make the most of opportunities as they arise. Despite what feels like a dreary world, I will continue to have a positive outlook on life (mindfulness and meditation really helps with this) and remember to enjoy and savour every moment.
Happy reading and blogging, and a very Happy New Year!
Clare Bear 🙂 xx